Showing posts with label child abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child abuse. Show all posts

Monday, February 11, 2013

Pontificating On The Pontiff

File Under:  What Condition Our condition Is In


There has been much talk about names, reputations, and legacies in the news.  The President asks Congress and the nation how will we be remembered for our actions in the wake of a national tragedy that has been repeated far too many times.  Serial murderer Christopher Dorner, labeled as a terrorist, has resorted to acts of violence in a one-man war against those who defamed his named.  In the wake of the announcement by leader of the Catholic Church, Pope Benedict XVI, that he will be leaving office due to health concerns, media outlets like The Huffington Post are asking: "What will be the lasting memory of Benedict XVI?"

Benedict XVI was a major confidant of the former Pope and the former Cardinal tasked with bringing priests in-line with Biblical doctrine and bringing sexual crimes to a halt.  Over the past four decades plus, the Catholic Church has not taken nearly enough decisive and demonstrative action to isolate and expose the culture of sexual misconduct among its parish leaders.  In fact, rather than seek justice for victims or protect future victims evidence would suggest that it has instead taken vastly more significant action to shield the Church from the repercussions of this scandal.  Logic dictates, Benedict XVI is at best very terrible at investigating things and at worst either directly or after the fact complicit in the systematic rape and abuse of thousands of children.

This accusation is perfectly fine to make.  However, looking to the Pope for a solution for institutionalized child abuse in the Church is like patching the roof of your home to fix water leaking into your basement from a faulty foundation.  This ignores many things.  Foremost among them is that child abuse is not just a sin, it is a social problem and a crime everywhere human rights are observed.  The fact that every priest in the United States who has ever touched a child has not served some time either in prison or on probation, and is now a registered sex offender means that the cover up was not isolated to the bishops and higher.  Without even getting into the culture of shame, guilt, denial and repression surrounding sexual misconduct and organized religion, the Penn State scandal showed us that intelligent, college-educated adults won't even go directly to the police when they see a crime committed with their own eyes, but will instead pass the information (read: responsibility and moral imperative) on to someone else -- then continue to say and do nothing days, weeks, months, and years after the criminal remains in their midst.  When a child is being abused this is not a matter of prayer this is a matter of law (Romans 13:1, 1 Peter 2:13-17).  If you want to see a child-molester removed from office: listen to the child, report the offender, and prosecute him or her to the fullest extent of the law.  At that point, what is their for a Pope to cover up?  Will he wave his Papal hands and say this is not the child-molesting priest you are looking for?

To the extent a leader does not take the lead on any issue, that leader has failed as a leader.  Benedict XVI does not get a pass for not taking the lead on this.  He should have been crusading around the world in the Popemobile beating bishops and priests with his bejeweled scepter, or paying a much younger and healthier person to do so on his behalf.  His solution to the problem was to make child abuse canonically illegal, encourage priests to be holy, and do penance (think about their sins).  That's a second major problem.  Child abuse or any other sort of sexual immorality was already canonically illegal, being holy did not stop the priests in the first place, and thinking about sinning is exactly what got them in the problem in the first place.  The Church from the parish to the Pope did not want to admit it needed secular help, to abdicate not one iota of its power or sovereignty, in solving a problem faith alone could not conquer.

Guilt, shame, anger, and sadness over the violation, the human wreckage, and the impotence you feel for having not done something or the idea you will not be able to do something in the future makes you want to bring the problem anywhere but home.  You want a solution, you want someone to answer for this thing or that, and you want the problem to go away.  However, relying on the Pope or any singular person to rectify a systemic problem is a fail-fail scenario because top-down solutions rarely if ever work, because they do not have the endorsement and involvement of the people.  When a solid bottom-up solution is backed by clear, strong leadership, then you have the potential for a legacy of sweeping change -- not just for the man but for the people he represents.

One man did not harm all those children, one man did not cover up their suffering - an entire church did, and entire society did.  In the grand scheme, it does not matter what The Pope stands for, allows, believes, teaches, says, or does.  It matters what the people of the Catholic Church stand for, allow, believe, teach, say, and do.  The same for any faith, belief, or ideological principle. It is the individual believers, the individual citizens of nations that matter - not the figurehead they dress up for ceremonial pageantry.  Jesus Christ of Nazareth claimed to be the divine Son of God here to end corruption in the Church of his day and save humankind.  Jesus died in 33 C.E. with a fistful of followers, and it was his followers who would go on to change the world.  In the end Benedict XVI legacy will be inconsequential, he will be remembered about as well as people remember who was Pope during The Crusades, The Inquisition, or The Holocaust.  Because one man cannot sway, let alone stand down tyranny or end child abuse, even if he claims to be the direct link to God on Earth.  But 1.2 billion Roman Catholics certainly can.

"Worn" by 10th Avenue North on The Struggle released 2012 on Reunion

End the culture of shame, guilt, denial and repression surrounding child abuse.  Let that be the legacy of our generation.  Please comment and share.  Visit me on Facebook, The Office of R. Conrad Bane and follow me on Twitter: @RConradBane.

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

2013 Stop Child Abuse and Rape Act, NOW is the Time!

File Under: The Law Is Not Mocked


In the furtherance of disunity and the expansion of the powers of the government, our elected leaders as the champions of fascism they are in our ongoing class war have posited much brilliant legislation to solve our socioeconomic ills and many well-meaning among us have agreed with them.  We do agree with them right? After all, we have elected them term after term to create modified versions of the same recycled failed partisan policies.  In the spirit of bills like the new proposed Assault Weapons Ban and the concept of citizens who are unemployed having to pass a drug test before receiving financial assistance from the state, I present to you a bill that Congress should pass to end a very serious problem.  But first some statistical background on the issues:

"Alive" by Pearl Jam from Ten released 1992 on Epic/Legacy

Child Abuse: Just An Everyday Thing

More than 5 children die every day as a result of child abuse
1,537 in 2010 alone, some 80% under the age of 4 years-old.

Nearly 27% of Child abuse is sexual or physical abuse.
90% of sexual child abuse victims know their victim
Average age of the abuser: 20-29 years

As a nation we spend $124 billion trying to reverse the damage of child abuse in medical, legal, educational, and social services.

14% of male inmates and 36% of female inmates were victims of child abuse.

Abused children are 30% more likely to commit violent crime (like mass shootings).

Chances Are, You Will Be Raped ...By The Person Sitting Next To You

207,754 people on average - at about a rate of 1 every 2 minutes - will be sexually assaulted in America.
80% of rape victims are under the age of 30.
9 out of 10 rape victims are female with 1 in 6 females being sexually assaulted in their lifetimes - 15% to completion.
Sexual assault results in an estimated 3,204 pregnancies from rape.

Victims of sexual assault are:
3 times more likely to suffer from depression, and
4 times more likely to contemplate suicide.

2/3 of rapes were committed by someone known to the victim.
73% of sexual assaults were perpetrated by a non-stranger.
38% of rapists are a friend or acquaintance.
28% are an intimate partner.
7% are a relative.

More than 50% of all rape/sexual assault incidents were reported by victims to have occurred within 1 mile of their home or at their home.
28.3% take place at the home of a friend, neighbor, relative, or in a parking garage.
67% of rapes occur between 6:00 pm and 6:00 am.

The average age of a rapist is 31 years old - 52% are white.
22% of imprisoned rapists report that they are married.

Juveniles accounted for 16% of forcible rape arrestees in 1995.

In 1 in 3 sexual assaults, the perpetrator was intoxicated — 30% with alcohol, 4% with drugs.
84% of victims reported the use of physical force only [by the perpetrator].

"Down With The Sickness" by Disturbed from The Sickness released 2000 on Giant/Reprise

In light of this very real, very serious public safety problem I propose the Stop Child Abuse and RapE Act or S.C.A.R.E. Act for short:

- Psychological Analysis and DNA Registration of White Males Age 14-31

We need to start training teachers, school nurses, counselors, and psychologists on how to spot bad eggs so that we can mark them, isolate them, medicate them, and if need be lock them away before they harm anyone.  If an individual has two or more precursors of a murderer or rapist, that individual becomes marked and monitored, much like if a civilian firearm has similar aesthetic features of a military firearm it should be banned and confiscated.  In the event that any should fall through the system we need a federal level database that will allow us to immediately hone in on any potential or actual abusers or rapists, without a lot of due process getting in the way.  In order to assure compliance we need to sew penalties for non-compliance into everything just like selective service and income tax reporting.

- Re-institute a stronger, more fortified Eighteenth Amendment

If we had less alcohol in the streets we could have less perpetrators of rape, and less victimization of rape.  We need to bring back prohibition - total ban this time.  Americans cannot be trusted to drink responsibly.  We will also take this opportunity to shoehorn a provision that any activity targeted to male youths including but not limited to: football, weightlifting, and wrestling which builds strength and stamina, and promotes violence, aggression, domination, or combativeness should be discontinued from all state-funded programs.

- ID10-T Selective Safe Dater Card System and Rape-Free Zones

After registering like a good citizen, taking a mandatory course, and submitting to further psychological profiling one can be issued an ID10-T Selective Safe Dater Card or "ID10-T Card" for short.  The ID10-T Card is color-coded (Black, Red, Orange, Yellow, Blue, Green, White), to easily assist visual referencing of your ranking in the Safe Dater System.  Now employers, proprietors, adoption agencies, and potential partners need only ask to "see your ID10-T Card," and know the Federal government has assured they're safety.  If you did not smell them in the first few articles, here comes another massive tax increase.  We need more law enforcement patrolling neighborhoods.  More child abuse and rape prevention education in grade schools and colleges.  No holder of a yellow or higher ID10-T or higher will be allowed to buy or rent property within 1 mile of a residential neighborhood.  All such persons are required to live in specially designated housing, away from residential neighborhoods.  I want free cab rides for co-eds and a beat cop within 1 mile of every home in America.

By the time the S.C.A.R.E. Act passes, the Second Amendment will be repealed and firearms will be illegal in the United States.  We will have to rely on the threat of anti-rape devices like the Rape-aXe inter-vaginal device to deter would be rapists.  This barbed plastic sleeve inserted in the woman's vagina can only be surgically removed once a man gets caught in its bite.

- Curfew Between Sundown and Sunrise for All Individuals Age 30 and Under

The rapists are out there, seeking to harm someone.  We must deny them their sick, demented desires. Anyone age 30 and under caught outside of their home (now a Rape-Free Zone) between sundown and sunrise unaccompanied by someone of legal age or with a valid permit will be subject to penalty including fine, arrest, or both.  If one should be stopped in the company of another with an ID10-T Card of yellow or higher color, law enforcement is authorized to make a summary arrest of said cardholder on suspicion of intent to commit a felony.

- Universal Background Check for License for Civil Union (Marriage)

Now we are beginning to come full-circle.  The problem begins and ends with children, the family or the lack thereof, so we are putting the kabash on the social services nightmare   To receive social services you must be: a married couple with or without children; a widowed or divorced person with or without children; or, a single person without children.  In order to be granted a license for a civil union or marriage you must submit to a mental health examination and a criminal background check

- Legal Parenting Age: 30 years-old and Parenting License

Statistics show it and we all know it to be true - people under the age of 30 are just not mentally and emotionally equipped to raise children.  Therefore, to discourage underage couples from giving birth to children we further stipulate that social services require, you guessed it, a psychological examination, background check, mandatory training, and test for all new parents.  To continue to receive social services and maintain your parental rights - yes, parental rights - you must renew your parenting license every 3 years.  Failure to do so will result in the loss of your parental rights and all social services for a minimum of 3 months, at which time you must complete the certification process again.

- No Child Left Behind: Enhanced

Having more children than a family can support puts a strain on the family, the community, the state, and the country.  Therefore, we must limit the number of children a couple or individual can have without penalty to three - for everyone.  Penalties for violation of this statute can include up to and including fine, community service, and imprisonment.  Unlike the infamous failed state-mandated birth control programs of some other less benevolent nations that resulted in the death of children, all children deemed to be suffering as a result of violations of this statute will be removed from the homes of their selfish birth parents and placed in the safe, loving foster care homes of strangers.  Aren't we beneficent?

Scared of the S.C.A.R.E. Act?  Don't be.  This policy is not bigoted and has nothing to do with: population control, social engineering, eugenics, or socioeconomic gerrymandering.  No one will be discriminated against, no one's rights will be abridged, and no one will disappear in the middle of the night.  This is all about public health and safety.  Don't you believe me?  I used real, minimally manipulated statistical data. Oh, you're being selfish!  Think about the children, dammit!  We all must do this for the children!


I'm certain more of you thought this bill was absurd than scary and stopped reading this post a long time ago.  This is because the notion that something like this will not happen in America persists despite glaring evidence to the contrary.  In 1791, after ratifying the Bill of Rights barely 20 years removed from the bloody war to secure freedom from a tyrannical government I do not think anyone in America would have thought so many people would have done so much to abolish all that sacrifice, and that the people would willingly go along with it.  The S.C.A.R.E. Act is not a joke, there is nothing humorous about the victimization of women and children; but, it is also not a serious piece of legislation that should ever come anywhere near a Congressional sub-committee, because your Congress is hungry for your rights, your Liberty, and your co-dependence upon them.  Whenever your state and federal government, the very government who has categorically reserved the right to subvert due process, spy on and kill American citizens, when that government starts using words like: database, profile, registration, background check, universal, identification, screening - these are huge red flags.  You can almost guarantee that not only is whatever they are proposing not going to make you safer, but in the long run it is going to be to to the detriment of you, everyone you care about, America, and the very principles of Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.

"Wonderful" by Everclear from Songs From an American Movie Vol. One: Learning How to Smile released 2000 on Capitol

As always please comment, share, continue the discussion in The Office of R. Conrad Bane on Facebook, and follow me on Twitter @RConradBane.  All statistical data in this post provided by the following sources:
Los Angeles Times | ChildHelp | RAINN | Safe Horizon
Today's blog is dedicated to the thousands of children who will die from abuse this year, the hundreds of thousands of victims of sexual assault, and the millions of unreported, unpunished violations that will happen every two minutes in our homes, schools, churches, and communities.  Thank you for allowing me to use your story.  Maybe if the rest of us could stop trying to introduce trans-vaginal ultrasounds, drug screening for the unemployed, and assault weapon bans we could focus on bringing you justice.

"Daddy" by Korn from Korn released 1994 on Immortal/Epic